Sex During Pregnancy - How Safe ?
Sex during pregnancy is generally considered unsafe in most of the
cases. Many doctors, gynecologists don’t talk about sex during
pregnancy with their patients. However, sex is an important and natural
part of pregnancy. In many cases it may become hard for a woman who is
fond of sex to stop sexual practice for nine months. So what are the
ways and how sex can be had during pregnancy.
Generally first three and last three months are considered sensitive so sex should be avoided in these first three and last three months.
In these months and also in other months, couples often do not
engage in sex fearing it will hurt the baby. But if you are having a
normal pregnancy free of complications, sex will not harm your little
one. The baby is protected from any normal thrusting (not deeper and
heavy) that takes place during sex. The mucus plug closes off the
opening of your cervix and so it protects baby from any infection. If
your doctor says okay for sex, you can go ahead and continue to have
intercourse.
Remember, these guidelines are not 100% sure. Always rely on your
gynecologist or doctor. These guidelines are only general and may not
be suitable for each and every person.
Avoid sex if you have faced some complications previously you should avoid sex as far as possible. These complications may be:
- miscarriage
- preeclampsia
- placenta previa
Safer Considered Positions
On The Edge Of Bed
In this position you lies on your back on the edge of bed and your
man can be off the bed eithr on his knees or standing. Alternatively
you can be off the bed on your knees resting your upper torso on the
bed and your belly off the bed for rear entry.
Woman on Top
In this position your man is lying on bed on his back and you are riding him. This is a great position as it takes all the pressure off of your abdomen. This position also allows you to take all the controls for depth and frequency of thrusting. It also gives your partner a great view of your body and so he is excited more.
Man on Top (Woman on Back)
Remember, this position is not recommended after the fourth month.
In this position you lie on your back moving your knees up towards your
chest. Your man kneels between your legs and enters from the front. You
can also rest your feet on your partner’s chest for support. You can
place a pillow under your bottom for added comfort.
Sideways
In this position you and your man lie on their side facing each
other. This position keeps the weight off of your abdomen and supports
your uterus. However in this position penetration can be a bit
trickier, specially if your man's organ is comparatively smaller. So
you can cross your legs over each others and this may help.
Spooning
This position is very popular positions to use during the late
stages of pregnancy. You and your man lie on their sides to same
direction so your man is lying behind you and facing your back. He
enters in you from the rear. This position is very comfortable for
pregnant women because it keeps the weight off your belly and also it
allows only shallow penetration.
Sitting
In this position your man sits in a sturdy chair and you sit
in his lap taking him inside you.
Rear Entry
This position is affectionately known as "doggy style". This
position is also favorite of many women. This is because it allows a
deeper penetration and also gives the opportunity to support your
stomach and breasts. You kneel on your knee and palms like a dog. Your
man kneels behind you, and enters from behind. Remember this position
allows deep penetration so keep telling your man exactly how deeep is
comfortable for you.
Oral Sex During Pregnancy
Oral sex is safe during pregnancy but with proper precautions. You
can ask your man to use a flavoured condom which are specially made for
oral sex. This prevents any possible infection. These comes in many
flavour like vanilla, strawberry, butterscotch and many more.
Finally, remember, during sex both partners should be physically
comfortable. You both should avoid any pressure on the uterus or belly
or stomach..
IMPORTANT:
Before practicing any part on this page and website, confirm and take
permission of your gynecologist or doctor. The content on this page
does not guarantee safety in any respect and is only based on printed
media.