Why do Women go for Extra Marital Affairs - Reasons
Normal opinion is that only 'bad' people have affairs. But for many
reasons a pretty good or a woman with high moral can even go for an
illicit relation. There is not any 'One' single reason why a person go
for extra marital affair. There are usually
many reasons a person may go toward an extra marital affair even if he
/ she does not want it.
Knowing the reasons for relationship problems or emotional infidelity can help persons save their marriage.
Reasons
for Extra Marital Affairs -
Why women go for illicit relation
- Problems in married life
- Desire to escape or find relief from a painful relationship.
- Unrealistic expectations about marriage.
- Curiosity, excitement.
- To re-experience feelings of romance.
- Desire for enhanced self-image, attention, to feel “special”
- Desire for emotional closeness and intimacy
- Addiction to physical intimacy, sexual addiction, desire of change in sexual act.
- Sexually weak husband.
- Inability to cooperate a partner’s needs, interests or expectations.
- Inability to communicate one’s own interests, needs or desires to his/her partner
- Boredom with the marriage, relationship or even work.
- Desire to punish her / his partner
- Inability to cooperate with cultural or ethnic differences.
In today's world
extra marital affairs are glamorized in movies, TV shows- serials,
romantic novels and various TV shows. You must have been noticed that
we listen very keenly for any extra marital affair because we are
fascinated and titillated by hearing of others' affairs. And gradually
a desire of such illicit relation is created in us and we don't know
about it till we are involved in such relation. Next, the code of
secrecy is also a basic factor in affairs because it provides us a
mental assurance to belive that I won't get caught.
Do Men and Women Have Different Reasons for Affair
Mostly emotional affairs are more likely for women. On the other hand man go for extra marital affair for sex in almost 80% cases. Women are more likely to link sex with love, while men’s involvements are more often primarily sexual.So why men cheat involves more physical reasons and not emotional.
This has been proved by numerous
studies that support these results. In one study, 75% to 80% of the men
who admitted that they had extramarital affairs primarily for sex. But
only 20% of the woman who were having any affair admitted that
the were having extra marital affairs purely for sexual reasons.
Why Men Cheat
- Desire for more sex
- Desire for sexual variety
- opportunistic sex (taking advantage of any opportunity to have
sex
with any women)
- To satisfy sexual curiosity about a specific female
- a feeling of entitlement (the belief that it's a man's prerogative to cheat)
- To show himself 'proud' among his friends.
- Attraction resulted by 'Basic Instinct' of men.
- and rest of the reasons may be as of women above
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