Do Men Prefer Working Wife?
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Times is changed and changing continuously in increasing acceleration and so the concepts and thoughts of people are also changing, but something perhaps can't change. Like more or less men still want a wife who will cook for them and at the same time be smart and a good life partner.
Earlier men were very rigid that their wives should not work and that they rather stay at home. The major reason behind this was that their wife could make sexual relation with any other male with whom she will be in touch at her job or workplace.
So women were supposed for household work and taking care of children. Specially in Asian countries. Thus men have been very choosy in choosing their wives from time immemorial. Another related fact was that highly educated and qualified women do not make good and homely wives.
But now time has been changed. The present situation and the present condition have brought a turning point.
Nowadays men are preferring women who are qualified as well as working and professionals. They prefer that their wives should move forward along with them , be even resourceful in monetary matters and even be independent. This turn of mind has occurred in men in the recent present.
But still there are many men, who wanted the complete 'wife package' which should include brains. beauty, looks, fair etc. etc.
However with changing the time, concept is also changing and now many men cooperate their working wife. Suppose caring of sick child, if his wife is busy, husband take total care of sick child at home if he has better reason to come out of job than wife.
Many working wives are able to gain approval from their husbands by reasoning it. Although some husbands don't actually agree with their wives working, they go ahead under pressure. This is not the approval that a wife should seek or desire. Pressured approval will eventually undermine the marriage relationship. Convince your husbnad, don't take his consent with pressure. But nowadays the guys are easily found to give approval easily and some are in search of true professional women who will be able to support him in all the fields.
In this age of privatization and high standard of living men are aware that both should work on the basis of security and long term benefits. In metro cities or big cities men are of the opinion that their wives should work and even their parents are supporting the matter that their daughter in law should be professional.
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